Things I Expect from My Mind Every Time in a Relationship - Asatola Toluwani Mercy

1. OPEN MINDED

     Issues and suggestion are heard in discussion, in terms of been open minded. True expression  of how they feel in every situation. All ladies  want her guy to tell her everything. everything even before telling himself. The guy must be able to express his mind to the girl always even if those words will hurt her. The guy must always express his feelings,thought to his woman.

2.LISTEN

   A speaker and a listener define a true discussion  that enhance a good relationship. In every relationship,there should always be a listener and the speaker,both must not do the two at the same time. So,when she is talking,she want you to be attentive and let her finish before you say anything. Do not cut off words from her. She needs someone that will always listen to her to share everything with.

3.TIME

   Everyone wish to be with their loved ones always which is not possible. But as a man create time for your girl even if you have busy schedule because she needs someone to share things with and if time is not created,she will always feel lonely. Learn not to priotise other things above your  woman. They are all subjected to time, they value the time you spend with them alot. It not only taking them out, let them feel you care by reaching down deep to their feelings.

4.RESPECT HER DECISION

      You are to be her husband not her father. She's meant to respect you, not to serve you. Whenever she makes suggestions or gives an opinion, let it count,do not neglect her opinion,do not look at her as a weaker vessel. She always want her suggestions to be put into consideration.

5. KNOW HER WEAKNESS/WEAKNESSES

    Girls always want their man to know their weakness or weaknesses,so that they will not hurt then through them by it and should try to make her overcome her weakness/weaknesses and be strong.