Every relationship has a suspicious guy sticking with the female folks which they are seen as rival by the main man. Research has shown that female feel very much comfortable when relating with guys even when they are in relationship more than their sex mate. To whom they are dating this guy will always be the reason for their jealousness, of which series of complain would be lodge already but all effort seems in vain. To all guys this male friend around their lover, seems like that wind blowing their relationship on and off.
In some cases, female partners will try all their possible best to make their affairs with their male friend clear to their lover. i.e show them their chat, text even put phone on speaker when they call in an effort to be honest. But this will never satisfy their partner in any way.
As times goes on, we begin to wonder,Am i not enough for this girl? She doesnt love me with her heart? Is she having affairs with him?. The answer is No, she is not having affairs with him but she is just doing a favour in a manner that spite you, no matter how worse the case may be do not put up any attitude to escalate the issue.
Research proves that female often feel comfortable with guys when talking about life and relationship than ladies either personal issue or general one.
Below are reason why female partners have male best friends often than female;
1. SECRECY
Male has a talent to keep secret for a long period of time more than female. Every ladies tends to tell what they cant inform their female friend about to male. To them they feel it is safer with him than their female friend. Yes, they also believe male friends will never use their secret as weapon against them when misunderstanding comes up. They also believe male folks are more mature when it comes to giving perspective about life and discuss their thought deeply.
2. ADVICE
This always comes in whenever they want to make it up with their lover. And they ask the male friends what to do in a situation like this. Since they will say "put yourself in his shoe" what will you? And he also need to fit himself into someone else's shoe since he is wearing from another one entirely( he is also in a relationship) he will not disappoint her and will also give her befitting advice to the issue bothering her which the lady will need the her brain to weight the advice before making it a preferrable solution to the issue on ground. Advice is one of those reason why female partners often engage in more friendship with male than female.
3. PROTECTION
Female hate going out alone base of study conducted. This is the reason why male best friend serve as protection to them based on their tactical mind not in violent manner will he protect them but from any form of harrassment by roadside toasters. Which all of them will dare not to go near when they see male friends behind them as we cant be with her all time. Female are fragile creature they need someone to protect them in every situation it needed. They will have the main guy i.e their lover and still look out for that guy which they will friendzone totally and which will go to any length to make them happy without ending up in bed with them.
Although male are not always happy seeing male friends around their lovers, but nothing is actually wrong with that if your girl try to do all in her power to make it clear and plane one to you . We are human, we get jealous but never let that ruin your relationship because of innocent guy.
Note: their are things best said to friends than lovers, they have different place in every ones heart.
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